WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP?
IN the recent workshop “Demystifying Men” with the highly esteemed tantric yogini Triambika many of our commonly held beliefs and misconceptions about men were dispelled.
For example men are not naturally born to communicate their emotions openly like a woman does. They tend to bottle things up and keep much of it hidden, this is just in their genetic makeup. They are the hunters and are programmed to keep things secret. So this can make dealing with issues and resolving problems in a relationship rather difficult.
It may also mean, your man may not be communicating openly in the manner that you want him to, therefore his ACTIONS are going to appear mysterious and confusing to you.
IN the recent workshop “Demystifying Men” with the highly esteemed tantric yogini Triambika many of our commonly held beliefs and misconceptions about men were dispelled.
For example men are not naturally born to communicate their emotions openly like a woman does. They tend to bottle things up and keep much of it hidden, this is just in their genetic makeup. They are the hunters and are programmed to keep things secret. So this can make dealing with issues and resolving problems in a relationship rather difficult.
It may also mean, your man may not be communicating openly in the manner that you want him to, therefore his ACTIONS are going to appear mysterious and confusing to you.
The truth is men are actually NOT very complicated creatures.
They only want ONE important thing in a relationship and ONE kind of woman. This may shock you but it’s something way different than the need to be appreciated, admired or loved more by their woman.
The number one thing men need in a relationship … is the freedom to BE allowed to be A MAN.
A man is someone admired for his MASCULINITY – when he knows he can protect and provide for his family and/or keep his woman happy!
That is all he wants.
That is all he wants.
They want to be or at least want to give off the “appearance” that they are the “alpha” male of the relationship. This simple concept eludes many women and women tend to disempower and emasculate men instead of encouraging them in their manliness..
This feminisation of men according to Triambika and our turning them into just hairier versions of ourselves is happening more and more. This has interfered with the natural instinctive ways of relating between men and women.
In so doing we often incite the most primitive defensive, survival reactions in men and then complain about how un-evolved they are acting. Just as men have been feminised in our society women have become overly masculine.
This imbalance affects the polarity and natural attraction in our relationships.
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