THE ULTIMATE LOVER
One of the most common questions I am asked by men in my practice is how can they be better lovers for the women in their lives.
Most people see a therapist or a coach because they are having problems, but not these men they are usually openly proud about their love of sex and genuinely want to improve their skills as lovers. Some of them are young and have a high sex drive and others are in there forties and beyond and realise that they need to upgrade their techniques and maybe learn a few new tricks.
Often they may need a clearer understanding of where they are at a baseline level and where they would like to be as lovers and how they can improve their own sexual mastery and then a slight adjustment in current sexual patterns and style as well as instruction and greater understanding of women's needs and desires.
As each women is totally unique it is impossible to come up with one particular formula or style that will work for everyone. But here are a few things that do come out for most women.
*Most women want to feel openly desired and cherished.
*They want to feel wanted and loved and that there body is accepted as it is.
*They don't want to feel that they have to be perfect or have the perfect breasts and perfect body.
*That they are loved for the inside as well as the outside.
*They want to feel that you are paying attention to them and aware of their needs.
*Women need to be romanticized, loved and adored.
*Women need to be spoilt and nurtured.
*They need to feel trust and safety before they can relax and open up.
*Deception makes women crazy.
*They like to feel that the man is confident and does not play games.
*They like new things and variety and not robotic predictable behaviour.
*They like a man who is not too serious with a sense of humour and fun.
*A man that has sense of adventure and a passion for life and sex.
*A man that can take control.
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